Sunday, January 31, 2010

Sand Mermaids, Queen Liliuokalani Park & and Silliness


Several "Furlough" Fridays ago we escaped to Onekahakaha Beach with our sweet little cousins and entertained ourselves with making the girls into mermaids and Elijah in a spidery-looking ocotpus.  Furlough Fridays are Hawaii's way of reducing labor costs in our public schools.  In other words, the kids don't go to school on Fridays, unless there was a holiday on Monday.  As you can imagine there are very mixed opinions about this issue, however, there will be no more Furlough Friday talk since this post is about the beach and other randomness.  The lovely ladies who accompianied Elise, Elijah and I are Aunty Jacelyn, Keisha and Ka`anela.

This photo of the kids at Queen Liliuokalani Park ended up on a mousepad as a Christmas gift for their grandparents.  I love the vivid colors.
So, Elise has been making up all sorts of definitions for words I didn't think she knew.  For instance, tonight out of the blue, before bed she said, "inseparable."  I asked her if she knew what that meant and she said, "It means don't play with hexagons."  I said, "Huh?  What are hexagons then?"  She answered, "Hexagons means chickens don't talk or...  no fighting allowed."  By this time she was giggling hysterically at my expression and was so silly that even when we tried to teach her the correct meaning of the word, she didn't really care.  However, when Aaron asked her how many sides a hexagon had she correctly answered (or guessed, I don't know), "Six."  What a silly 4-year old I have!
This picture is from when we lived in "SilverSpringMaryland" as Elise affectionately likes to refer our life on the east coast.  However, this picture is perfect because Elijah is STILL OBSESSED with this cape our brillant friend, Sarah, made as a favor for her son's b-day party.  She sewed the first letter of each kid's name onto the back (Nevermind that this cape was orginally meant for Elise - luckily both of their names start with "E").  He loves PBS's SuperWhy, wearing this cape and making silly superhero poses.

My heart is full... (not to mention my stomach!)

This Thanksgiving post is frightfully overdue.  However, a goal of mine this year is to post at least weekly.

This past Thanksgiving we went a few blocks over to Aaron's grandparents' to eat and relax.  After lunch we went outside with our cousins and entertained ourselves with bubbles...  There is something very magical about bubbles; their irridescent colors swirl like oil on water, they fall gently like snow and float around like petals in the wind.
  

I used my friend Tiana's pie crust recipe to make a family favorite - Banana Cream pie.  We must have pie on Thanksgving - it's tradition!  I love this pie crust and my family loves it too.
Elise's school, Haili Christian, had a musical performance by the different classes and her teacher had them create great Thanksgiving-themed crafts for the whole month of November.  The teachers even set-up Native American Tipi's around the school yard.


After we stuffed ourselves full of turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, pie and other delicious deserts, we went on a long, leisurely walk and enjoyed this beautiful sunset.   
I feel very blessed and am so grateful for so many things - primarly for a wonderful family. We feel so blessed to be entrusted with our two healthy, lively children.  Aaron's parents generously welcomed us into their home and his mom and sister watches our kids when we are at work.  I feel indebted to their gracious hospitality.  We are grateful for good employers in economic times like these.    I am reminded of God's love for me in nature and all of it's elements, beautiful sunsets, the ocean, bright green foliage, thunderstorms and rain.  I am grateful for life's simple comforts and pleasures, a roof over my head, more food than I could ever want to eat, for bubbles and good music.  I am grateful for a loving, affectionate husband who makes a better person through his influence and expample.  I am grateful for answered prayers, to know that the heavens are opened and that God speaks to us today individually and through living prophets, and for scriptures that teach us about His plan for us.  I am grateful for our Savior who loves us so much that he suffered unimaginable things and gave His life for each one of us, so that we can return to live with our Heavenly Father and loved ones someday.

Monday, November 30, 2009

Swashbucklin' fun - My baby's 3!

I can’t believe he’s three! It seems like yesterday he was born, learned how to crawl, walk and how to talk. He’s grown so much and while he sometimes drives me bananas, he has a heart of gold, he is so loving and affectionate, and he is deeply curious and full of life. He loves to laugh and ask a million questions (sometimes the same question over and over again. Lol.) He truly brightens our lives. (Thanks, Ash for the beautiful aloha clothes he is wearing!)

Elijah offered the opening prayer at his party and told Heavenly Father how he went to the Zoo and saw chickens (actually ducks), it was pretty funny. Thanks, Grandpa!! Aaron's dad offered to take Elijah and Elise out all morning to the Zoo and for icecream with our awesome cousins, Koa and Kai, while we set up and finished up making the food.
Elijah’s party was a huge success, much mahalos to party planner extraordinaire, JACE!

Jace and Kawena

Above: Aaron, Elise, Elijah & Jackie

Below: Elise & Koa, Keisha, Elijah, Ka`anela, Aaron

Below: Shawny, Wasatch, Brett & Eric

Jace created all the beautiful decorations, soda bottles full of sand and toys.

She also made a pirate party bag for each kid to take home, AND planned a treasure hunt for the kids, which included games like a coin and ring toss, ending with Elijah fighting a shark (Kai) and finding a treasure chest in the pool. Then everybody jumped in the pool!

Elijah fighting man-shark, Kai.

I made the food, with the wonderful help of my mother-in-law, Lala and Keisha. I made homemade spaghetti sauce and the girls helped decorate the pizzas. We used fruit from Gramma Noe's yard for the fruit salad, and Aaron's mom chopped all the veggies for the green salad. Plus, I made a big pirate ship cake (box cakes, with homemade buttercream frosting) for the birthday boy! (Thank you FamilyFun for the idea!) All the kids loved the cake.Thanks to everyone, it was truly a day that Elijah will remember.


Top left: Lala & Keisha. Lower left: Keisha

Top right, under balloons: The Kapus

Lower right: Aunty Milani, Aunty Boopie, Gramma Noe

Maui Obon Festival

One of the reasons I am grateful to be back in Hawaii is that we are with/nearby our family. Another reason I love being back is that we are closer to our cultural roots! Aaron is Hawaiian-Chinese-Irish, possibly with a little Maori (New Zealand) and I am full Okinawan.
My parents are learning so much about our heritage it is really inspiring. We now have a new family tradition. We are trying to make it back to Maui each year in August to celebrate the Okinawan Obon Festival. My parents are involved with the music for the festival - they are learning how to play the sanshin, which is similar to the Japanese shamisen and often likened to a banjo, but it is a traditional Okinawan instrument. Here are some of my favorite pictures from when we went to the festival this year. My parents completely spoiled the kids. My dad made it really special for them by setting up a wading pool, tent and surprised them with lights in the tree house. They loved playing in the sand, with their googles and flashlights, picking and eating their own mangoes. : )

Here is a slideshow with highlights from our trip. Thanks, Grandma and Grandpa Maui (as the kids call them)!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Rotten Pumpkins & Trunk-Or-Treat

We loved the fall tradition on the east coast of going to a farm and picking out perfectly plump pumpkins and crisp apples for pies. We were not to be able to go to a pumpkin patch this year, but we tried to carry on part of the tradition by carving our pumpkins. I knew we wouldn't be able to leave the pumpkins out on the porch for weeks like we could in colder climates, so I got ours two days before Halloween. Sadly, they did not make it... Note to self: pumpkins sitting in a tropical environment will melt/rot within 24 hours and will attract a multitude of unwanted bugs. Next year, I will definitely opt for the fake pumpkins I saw in Ben Franklin that you can carve.

We are not pumpkin carving geniuses like our friends Tiana & family, but we were pleased with how our spider and pirate turned out. We were always so inspired by Tiana's creations! Elijah's chose the pirate design and Elise wanted the spider. It was fun while it lasted.
My mother sent us these great costumes. If you didn't know, my mother is an avidly thrifty shopper and finds all kinds of deals at thrift stores. These costumes were perfect! Elise was a sweet Snow White and Elijah was a ferocious lion. My mom even sent a princess dress for me - isn't she thoughtful? : ) Lol - she is wonderful.
We met up with some friends for the neighborhood Trunk-0r-Treat which was great fun, safe, and well attended. As always there is more candy than anyone could ever eat. Afterwards, we went to one of the kids' favorite Auntie's house for hot cocoa and biscuits. Delicious!


Hope your Halloween was great fun too!

Black & White: Elise's 1st Girls' Nite

Hilo puts on this great festival called "Black & White Night" that showcases all the different businesses in town, as well as various musicians. The stores offer all sorts of free treats and sweet deals. I wanted to get to know the town a little and my SIL wanted to hear the music.
They call it the 'Hilo's biggest strolling party' because everyone just walks all over to the different shops, listening to great bands along the way. We had a blast listening to jazz, sipping on lemonade, and getting our face painted for free! Elise was thrilled to be out with the girls' and has had some issues going to sleep since. She now knows we have fun after she goes to bed! We went with Jacelyn, Aaron's sister and Lala, our cousin.

Elise won 20 dollars in the keiki (kay-key) or children's costume division. True, there were only 4 contestants, but it was a highlight of our night. She won second and an amazing little guy who dressed and danced like Micheal Jackson won first prize.
After the festivities, we ate at Cosmic Cones a local diner and then went to a Dollar Theater. We had a wonderful time and it was fun to be out with the girls, including my sweet girl.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Beaches, Honu, and Mo`o

It makes me nostalgic to see the changing of the leaves and cold weather clothes in everyone else's blogs. However, we're grateful that we can go to go to the beach still, even though we don't make it as often as we would like.

The kids are learning various Hawaiian words.

Honu means turtle. Pau (Pow) means done, finished. Pahipahilima (Pah-he-pah-he-lee-mah) means to clap. A`ole (Ah-oh-lay) means no.

Sometimes we'll pack a lunch and Aaron will go fishing. It's such a relaxing, fun family activity. I wish we had time to do this more often.

This beach is only about a mile from where we live and it's really child-friendly. It's sandy, only gets about 3 feet deep, and there is a man-made rock barrier so there is virtually no surf.


We love examining the tide pools full of opihi (salt water limpets), manini (small, striped surgeon fish), and other little crustaceans.

Mo`o is the name for gekko. Randomly, this one was sitting on my head after I dove into the pool. Elise is the one who pointed it out to me, and basically I freaked out. The kids were fascinated by it though!

Jace's new baby... (grand)

It's been a dream of my very talented, musical SIL to have her very own baby grand piano. So when the opportunity arose and a friend of a relative was giving one away for FREE, she was overwhelmed with joy. The joke in the family now is that it's Jace's new baby. My mom-in-law hired a man to tune the piano, but that it!

Below is the process of moving the baby grand in. I am proud to say that even though I was the smallest one, it was my legs that pushed the piano out of the trunk. I'm sure a lot had to do with the angle of the push and the fact that Aaron's cousin Baba stood behind me to give me something to push against.
Elise and Elijah immersed themselves in the task of polishing the wood. They did a fine job!

They polished every surface...
and then we attached the legs to the piano.

Here's the brawn. Aaron and his good friend, Gavin and cousin, Baba (in the yellow shirt), Aaron's dad, Jace and me all flipped the baby over. (Aaron and Gavin just finished playing some basketball.)

And the finished product!

We are now blessed by the musical talents of Jace and Aaron quite often. Aaron, has a beautiful voice and Jace plays jazz, classical, contemporary - you name it. She's a gifted improv artist and sight reads music really well.

Sweet & Silly Sayings

I don't know about your kids, but our kids' prayers turn into kind of travelogues. Elijah always starts out, "Heavenly Father... Daddy come home. Mommy stay here, with us..." and tonight he added "Elise go on adventure (but it sounded like ab-benture)."

Lately, Elise is much more expressive in her prayers. It's humorous to hear what she comes up with, although I wonder if she knows what she is saying... Recently she's prayed, "We're so grateful to pray and to listen and listen to pray." During FHE, "We're so grateful to pray about Jesus with all of our friends..." and tonight before dinner, she prayed after much rambling, " to make good choices."

One night before bed I told Elijah I loved him. It's not what he said so much as how he said it. Matter-of-factly, he exclaimed brightly, "That's right! You love me. And you love Elise!" Whew, I got that one right! He still has an adorable little lisp.

When we sing songs before bed, I like to hear the kids' version of songs... At the end of 'I love to see the Temple' Elise used to sweetly sing, "my sleeping beauty" instead of "my sacred duty." After much coaching she's evolved into saying, "my sleeping duty." Ah well, we're getting there. : )

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Kona Hawaii Temple

Getting to the Kona Temple for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints takes about a 2 hour drive one way but I can't complain - at least there is one on the Big Island. The grounds are simply beautiful! I think I may have found a couple willing to make the drive with us and do a babysitting swap/picnic sometime. As you can see we got up so early for this trip that Elise never got out of her pajamas...

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

1st day at Pre-School & 1st Haircut

On her first day of pre-school at Haili Christian, Elise was really excited. She smiled with Gramma Lynette and Elijah pre-haircut. As you can see, Elijah can't wait to go school too! Elise and her wonderful teacher, "Aunty" Pam. Right now they are practicing writing letters and numbers and learning phonetics. She also teaches the kids songs about Jesus. Before bed the other night, Elise said, "Let me teach you a song about Jesus." Then she sang all the lyrics to: "Jesus loves me yes I know for the bible tells me so." I know that song, but I've never sang that with her for some reason.

Elise immediately started playing and making new friends. I felt kind of lost because she was so at ease in her new classroom. Joyschool must have prepared her for this.

So while Elise was at school, we took Elijah to get his first professional haircut with Daddy. I think they look so handsome! When we picked Elise up from school, we all went out to eat to celebrate since they released the kids early on the first day. Normally she goes from 8 to 2:15 every day. She loves it! I hope to get Elijah invovled with "Keiki Steps" a free pre-school program for toddlers and their parents soon...

Little fishes

Soon after arriving here in Hawaii, Elise learned how to swim! Elijah can also swim shorter distances. They are such little fishes! It's great to have a pool in the backyard, especially when it's so humid outside. The kids went from being buoyed up like this:

To holding their breath under water, treading, getting more air and swimming quite far. These pictures were taken in Maui with an underwater camera my dad bought.
Elijah thinks he can do everything Elise does, which can be a little dangerous at times, but he's doing really good and is so independent.

Here are some of Elise's idols and new playmates - her second cousins, Keisha and Ka`anela.
Here's Aaron's lovely sister, hamming it up for the camera.

Sorry about this video, the shutter was stuck, so there is a very small window to see the kids do their tricks.

video

Coming home

Yesterday a good friend sent me an email entitled, "Are you still there?" It made me laugh. I hadn't realized that I hadn't blogged in a whole month! Wow, I'm such a slacker. Thanks for inspiring me to get posting again, Trina!

Elise often describes her memories from when we were "in Silver Spring Maryland" but she already needs prompting with remembering some people's names, which makes me sad. Before we left, while we were packing, we turned around to find the kids had made a makeshift table out of boxes and carseats.

Our kids are at an age where it's not exactly a nightmare to travel (still not a piece of cake) - having their own seats seemed to help! Both of them fell asleep just fine and had a lot of fun playing with their new water paint brushes and re-usable tablets. Elijah did get yelled at for kicking a guy's chair when I wasn't paying attention, but the trip was otherwise (thankfully) uneventful.

When we arrived in Hilo, we walked down to baggage claim and were greeted by Aaron's dad and sister holding a big welcome home banner... So sweet and thoughtful!

We had a wonderful, joyful reunion with the Auna Ohana.

It's good to be back. : )

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Our last suppers with...

The Palmer and Chinh Ohanas! So this will be my last post about the east coast, even though I could write a book about all the wonderful people we met out on the east. But it's only fitting that I will end by writing about the Palmers, who always showered us with generosity & aloha and made us feel like we were in the islands,

and the Chinhs, who are such a wonderful family and they were still doing nice things for us up until the time we left the east. Gina kindly gave us a ride to the airport because we sold our Rodeo. She was always doing thoughtful things for us and I wish I could have reciprocated more! Gina is a dear friend - she inspires me to be a better person. She's such a dedicated mother; she's always teaching, learning and serving. She has so many creative talents, and is a fabulous cook. I love how assertive and articulate she is, and wish I could be more like that. She is very insightful and while she has strong convictions, she is very open- and fair-minded.

The night we got together with the Palmers, we our sides and cheeks hurt from laughing so much. Tua mimicked a Polynesian comedian's act he found on the internet and had us rolling! He's hilarious. We talked with him and Dana into the night, reminiced about our childhoods (bottlecaps, garbage pail kids...) and Tua brought out his favorite childhood marbles... Nizhoni laid them out aritistically on the table and I had to take a picture! Of course, I also had to take pictures of the delicious food: bbq chicken, pasta salad, fresh fruit, Hawaiian sweet bread rolls, fresh green beans and onions, rice and chocolate cake... We miss you guys!!
Our night with the Chinhs was so nice and relaxing, full of sweet hugs between the kids. It was close to when we were leaving and didn't really have any food in our fridge so it was so nice to eat such delicious fish tacos. I love the way both Gina and Dana cook! Gina made us homemade peach ice cream - such a treat - with a white cake topped with coconut! Of course, I took a picture of that too. This is a tangent, but the reason I like to take pictures of food is because people work so hard to make something so delicious and pleasing to look at and then it is gone! I like to remember all that went into it. : ) I love all the sweet hugs!! We love and miss you guys!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Reminicing... Michelle & Damon

I'm nostalgic, but it seems so long ago when Damon, Elise, Ethan, and Ches were this little... (Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure that's the back of Ches' head! : ) I believe this was taken at Michelle's house when the kids were around 16 months, before Elijah was born. I can't write a post about them without reminicing.
I miss those round, baby faces. In this photo, Damon is around 2 and Elijah looks to be about 8 months.

The last time Elise and Damon got to hang out with each other, they came over for a swim in our pool.
Our three cuties warming up on the benches.
This is my absolute favorite of Damon. You just can not take a bad picture of this kid - seriously! He should famous, he is so photogenic and cute.
Michelle is so lovely and we adore her sweet new baby, Brixton. She is such a true, dear friend... always generous and thoughtful. Once when were all home sick from church with something, she stopped by with a plateful of delicious brownies and a card addressed to "Sweet, Sickly Aunas." It made us smile! She was always more than willing to watch my kids when I had an appointment or errands to run. Once she drove me to the temple twice when it was raining because I had forgotten my reccomend!
Michelle always makes laugh, she says things I wish I could say with tact and humor. She's is out-going and warm, and a best friend to so many people! I'm grateful for her and how she kept me sane while we were neighbors. I am so grateful that I could confide in Michelle all about the challenges I had with my kids, the joy I found in their development, and that we could encourage each other in our goals. I'm so grateful for the great memories of going to the Olive Garden, parks, pools, picnics and watching fun shows on my laptop. We feel so blessed to have such wonderful friends!

Aaron and the kids floating on a sea of foam noodles.


Our free picnic dinner, courtesy of Summit Hills. : ) It was a fun way to say goodbye, and the kids really enjoyed seeing Damon one more time before we left. We love and miss you guys!